unique question for Fiona

Hi Fiona, I'm Zack. I saw your channel on youtube and decided to check out you website and it has really provided a lot of insight as to the challenges I know I must overcome. But I wanted to ask you a question that may seem a little complicated.

I am referring to a state of mind of feeling in this question.

Have you ever wanted something, you weren't exactly sure what it was, but you eventually found it, and only after you found it, you realized what it was?

This is how I feel about my fraternity. I had always longed to belong somewhere outside my own home, where I felt accepted based on my personal character. And my fraternity brothers and sisters (its a coed fraternity) took me in. Its like my second family there. My whole life, as far as social life goes, I wanted to have a sense of belonging somewhere socially, but I never realized it until I joined this fraternity.

Have you ever been in a situation like this before?