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« on: October 17, 2010, 06:15:32 AM »

I went into a bar the other day and the owner introduced me to a guy as an aspie. This person said that I could not be aspie as he was a teacher of asperger kids in the States and I didn't look aspie. After chatting to him for a while he admitted that I was. He told me that his kids looked more like geeks than me. Also I found out that he saw asperger people as mentally retarded. Overall I felt demoralised that someone in his position should know so little about AS.
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« Reply #1 on: October 17, 2010, 08:04:26 AM »

The guy is an idiot, thats all I have to say. You should have given him a piece of your mind. How else will he learn?
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« Reply #2 on: October 17, 2010, 08:17:25 AM »

and this is one of those that teach aspie kids here... and supopsed to help them realize their true potential? the teacher doesnt even know what...

now i feel worried for the well-being of these kids...

mentally retarded... I think hes mentally retarded
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« Reply #3 on: October 17, 2010, 01:56:48 PM »

The one positive comment he made was that aspies are so incredibly honest. That he could leave a hundred dollar bill on his desk and leave the room.............
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« Reply #4 on: October 17, 2010, 02:26:01 PM »

"Professionals" have been SO INCREDIBLY capricious that even some "experts" require some type of cognitive impairment besides social.  NEVER MIND that the aspergers diagnosis SPECIFICALLY excludes that!

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(V) There is no clinically significant delay in cognitive development or in the development of age-appropriate self help skills, adaptive behavior (other than in social interaction) and curiosity about the environment in childhood.


DON'T WORRY though.  They are planning on OFFICIALLY removing such differences from the DSM!

http://www.wellsphere.com/autism-autism-spectrum-article/dsm-5-sweeps-intellectual-disability-under-the-autism-rug/966319


So the teacher is ONLY an idiot because he has observed a pattern created by all the IDIOT "professionals".  AND, having made a mistake, they plan to just redefine it so it isn't a mistake.  AS is viewed as being more debilitating than it should be.  Since AS used to NOT be seen as debilitating, classic autism people diagnosed as AS have not had the help they should have.  This will just make things more confusing.

But they are IDIOTS so, OF COURSE, you can't expect them to think of such things!
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« Reply #5 on: October 17, 2010, 09:57:23 PM »

I know a guy licensed to practice psychology in the State of New Jersey who thinks like that (and acted upon his thinking in a professional setting). He may or may not be so licensed after my complaint to the State Bd. of Psychological Examiners is resolved.
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« Reply #6 on: October 18, 2010, 12:51:13 AM »

Hmm...aspies are idiots?  excuse me...hee hee hee ha ha ha (falls of chair laughing)!!! WHAT the (BEEP)? Then why do most aspies when tested have an average IQ of 115? (I know, IQ tests are not accurate with aspies due to peaks and valleys on the subtests).  But still, let me use myself as a counterexample.  If all aspies are idiots, then there must not exist one whose IQ is above 100 - well, here I am! My IQ is above 100; therefore, his claim is invalid, and he should be hanged for it. Just kidding.
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« Reply #7 on: October 18, 2010, 01:48:03 AM »

What an ASS that A**H***E was.   Roll Eyes  He should go to the Delphi Forums and join the anti-AS clique there and leave the rest of his clients ALONE! 
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« Reply #8 on: October 18, 2010, 01:56:36 AM »

Some professionals look down at you especially if you have something that makes you stand out.  They dont talk to you they talk down to you.  Yes I will agree some aspies I have seen do look geeky and nerdy but some also look trendy and some look as normal as everybody else.  But there are nt that dress weird, nerdy, trendy and the average joe. 

 
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« Reply #9 on: October 18, 2010, 02:57:22 AM »

Some professionals look down at you especially if you have something that makes you stand out.  They dont talk to you they talk down to you.  Yes I will agree some aspies I have seen do look geeky and nerdy but some also look trendy and some look as normal as everybody else.  But there are nt that dress weird, nerdy, trendy and the average joe. 

 

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I felt the same way after my psych evaluation for ADD and AS.   Roll Eyes
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« Reply #10 on: October 18, 2010, 05:34:06 AM »

this person was supposedly a teacher for aspies and he doesnt know jack - he thinks we are mentally retarded - what more for those who really have no idea about this, like the plain simple folks out there. they probably think were also like that or worse - theyve probably never even heard of the word aspergers syndrome - and would dismiss us as someone whos at the profound autism level(which is what you see in TV and movies)
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« Reply #11 on: October 20, 2010, 12:54:31 AM »

MM-
If you don't want to be perceived as bigoted and anti-american, it might be a good idea to say more....but of course, you don't need to say any more.
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« Reply #12 on: October 20, 2010, 08:17:56 AM »

Sorry funny face king Smiley
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« Reply #13 on: October 21, 2010, 12:56:46 AM »

no worries, mate!  Grin
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« Reply #14 on: October 21, 2010, 01:08:35 AM »

I went to the bar to meet Fred (AS teacher) tonight and guess what, they had Rain Man on the tv. At the beginning they say that most autistics are unable to communicate. I thought that it was the other way around.
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