Aspies can get married

[Marco]

A friend of mine needed a visa to stay in the country so she asked me to marry her. I thought that was really funny as I never imagined getting married. She got angry because she thought I thought she wasn't attractive enough.

[TheException]

That doesn't seem like a proper arrangement...

But to your topic title, OF COURSE Aspies can get married. Duh

I'm technically married.

[zenemu]

I should hope so, as I am doing so myself in 17 months time.

[Marco]

So I got married 3 days later. What's taking you so long?

[MM]

Zen and his partner have a full schedule a head of them.  They need time to plan

[AspieGirl85]

I plan to find a partner one day or another.  I am about to graduate college and move on to another college for a higher degree.  I do not plan on telling my partner I have Aspie, Bipolar, Anxiety, or PTSD.  If it comes up in a conversation great if not then it is not their business.  It is personal to me...and if you all get into it with me about it, I am sorry but this is who I am.

[zenemu]

I plan to find a partner one day or another.  I am about to graduate college and move on to another college for a higher degree.  I do not plan on telling my partner I have Aspie, Bipolar, Anxiety, or PTSD.  If it comes up in a conversation great if not then it is not their business.  It is personal to me...and if you all get into it with me about it, I am sorry but this is who I am.

Fair enough, but in a relationship you need to share personal things, and to be fair to your future partner, some Aspie tendancies and behaviours can be troubling or unsettling, especially if someone is unaware of the condition.

Personally I don't let Aspergers define me, but when it comes to personal relationships and friendships ect - It is usually beneficial to let people know, that way there are a lot less misunderstandings and people know that I am not being rude or stand-offish in busy environments for example - simply having sensory issues.

[MM]

I have tried both methods and sometimes if your a more normal acting high functioning autistic like me that has overcomed it to become a very mild case (which has been compared to aspergers) it sometimes is good not too tell people(asociates).  The thing is I hate being babbied and mothered too much especially by younger women(mature ladies understandable).  I have an interllect that is compareable to some one with mild aspergers and so people find me interesting.  However when it comes to close friendships and relationships I will need to tell my future partner otherwise I could go into a relationship and cause myself and the other person alot of unessecery pain.

[Lynn]

My cousin, who is also Aspie, got married recently.  It was beautiful. I adore her husband. They dated for many years first and he is fully aware of her quirks.