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Question: What is your relationship status?
Single   -27 (57.4%)
I have a steady boyfriend/girlfriend   -5 (10.6%)
I'm currently dating "around"   -2 (4.3%)
I am legally Married   -9 (19.1%)
I am not legally married but me and my significant other consider ourselves married   -3 (6.4%)
Other   -1 (2.1%)
Total Voters: 47

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« Reply #15 on: October 19, 2008, 01:50:51 PM »

I find that I value my freedom over having someone in my life...

I feel more free since my marriage then I ever felt when I was alone. I found marriage to be very liberating and great fun.

It probably helps being married to the right person  Wink
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« Reply #16 on: October 19, 2008, 04:50:46 PM »

I find that I value my freedom over having someone in my life...

I feel more free since my marriage then I ever felt when I was alone. I found marriage to be very liberating and great fun.

It probably helps being married to the right person  Wink

lol - Undoubtedly Grin
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« Reply #17 on: October 19, 2008, 05:47:08 PM »

Eh, right now, I'm not really single, yet not in a relationship (I'm talking to her again right now)
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« Reply #18 on: October 19, 2008, 08:29:54 PM »

Funny this:)
Though i'm not gonna stay still to long with this Asp Syndrome..
I have a girlfriend for over 4.5 years,she's from vietnam and a prof classical violonist.
She totally went crazy wen she heard me drum(learned it myself)especcialy the high level.
I'm a rocker and listen to a lot of fusion music..
We had alot of issues about my behaviour..
First i heard it i ehh asperges??
That's a vegetable in dutch Grin
But that's me,i only wanna know more about Asperger..
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« Reply #19 on: October 19, 2008, 09:22:11 PM »

I have always been single.   Someday, I would like to meet someone.
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« Reply #20 on: October 21, 2008, 12:12:07 AM »

Hmm i just voted....
There not many Aspies with a relation.
My shrink said i'm very lucky.
I still have problemo,all info i try to find only shows typical "nerds"like Gates.
Not to be offensive,but it's true:(
Most of the dutch aspies look like mental handicap people..
For me i look like a non-emotional ser-killer,not my words.
But i can laugh about it and keeps me out of trouble.
I use humor to hide it:)

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« Reply #21 on: October 21, 2008, 02:43:17 AM »

I still have problemo,all info i try to find only shows typical "nerds"like Gates.
Not to be offensive,but it's true:(
Most of the dutch aspies look like mental handicap people.

Nothing wrong or shameful about being mentally handicapped. For that matter there is nothing wrong or shameful about looking like a nerd.

Didn't I post you the link to the Autistic Adults Picture Project somewhere? You ought to take a look.
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« Reply #22 on: October 21, 2008, 02:57:02 AM »

I still have problemo,all info i try to find only shows typical "nerds"like Gates.
Not to be offensive,but it's true:(
Most of the dutch aspies look like mental handicap people.

Nothing wrong or shameful about being mentally handicapped. For that matter there is nothing wrong or shameful about looking like a nerd.

Didn't I post you the link to the Autistic Adults Picture Project somewhere? You ought to take a look.

I remember the picture project site, it was awesome.
Nothing to be ashamed of no matter what you look like imo.. I wouldn't judge people on that.
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« Reply #23 on: October 21, 2008, 03:31:09 AM »

Nothing to be ashamed of no matter what you look like imo.. I wouldn't judge people on that.

Exactly.

And yes, the picture project is awesome Grin
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« Reply #24 on: October 21, 2008, 05:55:27 AM »

I am married to The Exception.  Cheesy aka GalileoAce.
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« Reply #25 on: October 21, 2008, 06:11:43 AM »

I have been married fourteen years and we have a twelve year old autistic daughter.
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« Reply #26 on: October 21, 2008, 07:45:37 AM »

I had a g/f once. Met her when I was 19 and she was 21 and stayed together about 5 years before she went back to live in England. We had our ups and downs but mostly downs. I was 100% loyal but she cheated on me I think because I wasn't there enough for her. I was diagnosed back then but didn't take any interest in AS. Didn't realise everything I did was AS related. If I meet another girl, I'll keep my obsession at work and leave it at work.
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« Reply #27 on: October 21, 2008, 04:29:24 PM »

If I meet another girl, I'll keep my obsession at work and leave it at work.

If you meet the right girl, you might not have to.

Sounds like the English girl was a right so-and-so. She cheated on YOU... don't you go and make excuses for her by blaming yourself. Don't do it, ANZ.
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« Reply #28 on: October 21, 2008, 11:01:28 PM »

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I was 100% loyal but she cheated on me I think because I wasn't there enough for her.

Oh, yeah, that happened to me too. My ex Madison cheated on me 3 times: once 'cause this other guy kissed her and she didn't want him. The next time, she claimed it was an accident (yeah right!), and the last time, well I got tired of her crap, so we broke up. After that, I implemented a 3 strikes policy. Then a couple of months later, she wants back in. I'm thinkin' "Uh-uh! You had your chance!  Angry" but I let her down gently (I'm no heartbreaker. I'm too sweet to crab at her.  Smiley )
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Take me to Portugal, take me to Spain,
Andalusía with fields full of grain
I have to see you again and again.

Trade winds find galleons lost in the sea
I know where treasure is waiting for me.
Silver and gold in the mountains of Spain
I have to see you again
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« Reply #29 on: October 23, 2008, 08:15:15 PM »

Shoutouts to everyone else here Smiley I voted other.  I'm engaged, but we don't live together and don't consider ourselves married... getting married in 2010 hopefully!
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